CROYDON COMMENTARY: The founder of a charity that addresses violence against women and girls, JENNIFER McDERMOTT, pictured right, responds to the tragic news at the weekend of Marjama Osman, another woman killed in the borough
I am deeply saddened by the continued loss of lives in Croydon, especially among women. Unfortunately, I hesitate to get directly involved, as I am mindful of my own triggers — my daughter Cassie was also killed in the borough, and while her case didn’t involve knife crime, it was still Violence Against Women and Girls all the same.
The pattern keeps repeating. Each time tragedy strikes, there is an outcry — but little meaningful action follows.
This cycle of shock and inaction is numbing communities to the reality of these killings.
And it is unacceptable.
During the period following Eliane Andam’s killing in 2023, I attended a public council meeting, expecting leadership and decisive action. Instead, the conversation descended into chaos. Some time later, requests for money and food donations emerged.
I don’t believe this was driven by the family — rather, professionals who felt they needed to “do something” sent out an extensive food list. A similar response followed in the case of Jamelatu Tsiwah, the young woman found murdered in her home in Thornton Heath earlier this year.
Murder victim: Marjama Osman was killed on Frith Road on Saturday
I switched off when the online public meeting focused on fundraising instead of addressing the core issue. It is disheartening to witness this lack of direction and accountability when real support is desperately needed.
I knew that Eliane’s killer was from the care services, but I don’t know who was responsible for monitoring him. I have my suspicions, but this uncertainty highlights a larger systemic failure.
Beyond all the above, there is an urgent need for community safe spaces — and yet, none exist that I am aware of. Libraries that are being closed could be repurposed as safe spaces, yet no one is taking decisive action. Norbury Library is underused and it could serve as a vital safe space.
Safe spaces across boroughs are not just a suggestion — they are a necessity. These spaces offer protection, a place for vulnerable individuals to seek help and a supportive community environment. They provide resources for those at risk and can be used for emergency intervention.
Croydon must not be allowed to become a graveyard — though right now it feels like one.
- Jennifer McDermott founded the Cassandra Centre in Norbury in 2007 after the murder of 19-year old Cassandra McDermott by her ex-boyfriend. The charity exists to provide counselling, education and support to those affected by domestic abuse
- To find out more about the Cassandra Centre, to access their services, or to volunteer or donate, click here
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