NSPCC concern over rising number of ‘home alone’ children

The National Society for the Protection of Cruelty to Children has urged parents in Croydon to think carefully before leaving their children unsupervised during the school holidays, after seeing a 21 per cent rise in contacts about the issue last summer.

Home alone: the NSPCC is concerned about children being left to fend for themselves during school holidays

As schools in England and Wales break-up for summer, the NSPCC has revealed specialist practitioners on its helpline received 5,737 calls and emails in 2018-2019 from adults concerned about youngsters being left home alone.

Nearly one-third of those calls and emails were between July and September, during the long, summer school holidays.

The NSPCC says that 70 per cent of those contacts were judged so serious they were passed on to police or social services. The helpline made 374 referrals to agencies across London from members of the public concerned about a child that was left home alone.

Across the year worried callers reported children being left alone overnight, young children left to feed themselves and use dangerous kitchen equipment and siblings fighting over iPads and games.

A concerned relative told the helpline: “I’m aware in the past my teenage grandson has been left home alone in the daytime and evenings while his mum goes out. At the moment, he’s being left home alone every day. He doesn’t have any friends or family in the new town so all he can do is play on his game station all day. The last time I saw him he looked really unhappy.”

Although the law does not give a minimum age at which children can be left on their own, parents and carers can be prosecuted for cruelty to a child, which includes neglect, abandonment and failure to protect, if children are put at risk of suffering or injury.

Louise Exton, the NSPCC’s helpline manager said: “Parents face increasing childcare pressures. Childcare is the biggest cost for families after housing, which could explain why we see a spike in calls to our helpline during these months.

“Leaving your child home alone can be a difficult decision as children mature at different ages – there is no ‘one size fits all’ answer. Parents are best placed to know what is right for their child so it’s vital there is flexibility for them to decide, but we would urge them to think carefully and use their common sense when deciding if their child could cope.”

The NSPCC has issued the following guidance to help parents and carers decide when to leave children home alone:

  • Babies, toddlers and very young children should never be left alone.
  • Children under the age of 12 are rarely mature enough to cope in an emergency and should not be left at home alone for a long period of time.
  • Children under the age of 16 should not be left alone overnight.
  • Parents and carers can be prosecuted for neglect if it is judged that they placed a child at risk by leaving them at home alone.
  • A child should never be left at home alone if they do not feel comfortable with it, regardless of their age.
  • If a child has additional needs, these should be considered when leaving them at home alone or with an older sibling.
  • When leaving a younger child with an older sibling think about what may happen if they were to have a falling out – would they both be safe?

The charity is also encouraging parents to use the start of the summer holidays to remind their children about staying safe online.

“One of the best ways for parents to keep their children safe is by having regular conversations about what they are doing online – similar to finding out about their day at home or school,” said Laura Randall, NSPCC’s associate head of child safety online.

“Parents will be able to spot any problems, and should encourage their child to come to them if they’re worried, as well as make sure their child knows what’s OK to share online – and what’s not.

“Today’s children don’t see the division between online and offline worlds, so it is vital that parents talk to them about the possible dangers they could face online, and how to protect themselves.

“Just as you would with all the offline places they socialise and play.”

In a recent YouGov survey the NSPCC found that one-fifth of UK parents of eight to 13-year-olds believe the greatest online risk to their child is not talking to their parents about something they have seen which has worried or concerned them online.

The NSPCC has joined forces with O2 and created lots of advice, including a guide called Net Aware on the most popular sites, apps and games children use.

And if parents are still not sure where to start then they can call the O2 and NSPCC online safety advice line (0808 800 5002) for free expert advice on setting up parental controls, adjusting privacy settings or using social networks.

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